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There are different ways of managing the home
and the choice made will greatly affect family life. The father
and mother should therefore decide wisely on this matter if they
want to raise a happy family well-provided for in every way possible.
These different ways are influenced by certain factors such as:
- The Philosophy of the Parents. Some parents believe that that
their children should be allowed to fully enjoy themselves and be
spared from household chores. Children in these families grow into
adults not even knowing how to cook rice or iron a shirt. Other
parents, however, believe in training their children to do household
chores. In such households, children who are still in their elementary
years can already cook and know the basics of keeping house. An
upbringing like this adequately prepares the children for an independent
life later on.
The Family
Budget
The Household Budget. If the household
budget allows, a family can purchase food items and other groceries
for a whole week or longer during weekends. This spares the family
members the trouble of having to go to the market everyday. This
also allows the family to plan meals in advance. Also, a bigger
budget may include provisions for household help. This eases the
burden or house chores on the family. Some families do not hire
help but save up for a washing machine, a floor polisher, or a vacuum
cleaner to simplify housework.
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The Resources and Facilities Available
to the Family. When resources and facilities available to the family
are limited, then the activities of the family members have to be
adjusted accordingly. For example, when some members of the family
have to sleep in the living or dining rooms, then the home manager
restricts the entertainment of visitors in the evenings. Or, if
the water supply in the neighborhood is available only until the
early evenings, then the family members should have cleaned up the
kitchen, bathed, and filled up water containers before the water
supply is cut off.
The Amount of Time Parents Can Give
in Managing the Home. There are times when both parents are busy
working. In such households, the eldest child is made responsible
for administering matters in the house based on the policies set
by the parents. The child-administrator supervises the activities
of the younger siblings, prepares meals, takes care of the younger
children, and does the laundry. While the parents are away, the
child administrator or guardian is regarded as the head of the household
and should be respected and obeyed.
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